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What It Costs to Raise You

A year in the life — by the numbers. Your totals from Parts A and B carry over. Some numbers you will need to ask a parent for. A question mark is honest. A blank is avoidance.

Lesson Zero Part C The Full Family Picture
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Your numbers so far — carried from Parts A and B
Part A · Your spending
$—
Part B · Others spent on you
$—

Part C zooms out to the full picture — housing, food, health, education, transportation — everything it takes for one person to live a full year. This is the number your family pays to keep you in the world.

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Section 1 of 6

Home

Before food, before school, before anything else — someone is paying to keep a roof over your head, the lights on, and the water running.

ExpenseHow to find this numberMonthly $
Housing
Rent or mortgage — your shareMonthly rent or mortgage ÷ number of people in house.
Renters / homeowners insuranceMonthly premium ÷ household members.
Utilities
Electricity — your shareMonthly bill ÷ household members.
Gas / heating — your shareMonthly bill ÷ household members.
Water and sewer — your shareMonthly bill ÷ household members.
Internet — your shareMonthly bill ÷ household members.
Section 1 Total — Home$0.00
Something to Notice

The average one-bedroom in Colorado Springs runs $1,100–1,400/month before utilities. At Colorado minimum wage ($14.42/hr), that is 80–100 hours of work just to keep the lights on and the door locked.

Section 2 of 6

Food

ExpenseHow to find this numberMonthly $
Home Meals
Your share of groceriesMonthly grocery bill ÷ number of people in house.
Household staples — your shareSoap, toothpaste, toilet paper ÷ household members.
School lunchDaily rate × 20 school days.
Family restaurant meals — your shareMonthly family dining ÷ number of people.
Food you buy yourselfAll snacks, drinks, fast food you personally buy.
Section 2 Total — Food$0.00
Section 3 of 6

Health

Health costs are invisible right up until they aren't. Most young people are on a parent's insurance and never see these numbers.

ExpenseHow to find this numberMonthly $
Insurance
Your share of health insuranceAsk a parent what adding you costs on the family plan.
Dental insurance — your shareYour portion of the family dental plan monthly.
Medical Care
Annual physical ÷ 12Copay or full cost ÷ 12.
Dentist cleanings ÷ 12Twice per year cost ÷ 12.
Eye exam / glasses / contacts ÷ 12Annual cost ÷ 12.
Prescriptions — monthlyAll medications, monthly.
Orthodontics / bracesMonthly payment if applicable.
Section 3 Total — Health$0.00
The Number Nobody Talks About

Average cost of health insurance for a child on a family plan: $200–400/month. A single ER visit without insurance: $1,500–3,000. A broken arm: $2,500–7,500. Health insurance is not optional. It is one of the first things you will need to figure out when you are on your own.

Section 4 of 6

Education and Activities

ExpenseHow to find this numberMonthly $
School
School supplies annual ÷ 12All supplies for the year ÷ 12.
Activity fees / club dues ÷ 12All fees for the year ÷ 12.
Sports fees and equipment ÷ 12All sports costs for the year ÷ 12.
Special events ÷ 12Prom, field trips, photos — annual ÷ 12.
Activities Outside School
Lessons / coachingMusic, sports, tutoring — monthly.
Summer programs / camps ÷ 12Annual cost ÷ 12.
Section 4 Total — Education and Activities$0.00
Section 5 of 6

Clothing and Personal Care

ExpenseHow to find this numberMonthly $
Clothing
Back-to-school clothing ÷ 12Everything bought for the school year ÷ 12.
Shoes — all pairs this year ÷ 12Total annual spend on all shoes ÷ 12.
Seasonal / sports clothing ÷ 12Winter coat, uniforms, gear — annual ÷ 12.
Personal Care
HaircutsCost × cuts per year ÷ 12.
Hair and hygiene productsAll products, monthly average.
Section 5 Total — Clothing and Personal Care$0.00
Section 6 of 6

Transportation

ExpenseHow to find this numberMonthly $
Your Share of the Family Car
Car value ÷ years owned ÷ peopleKBB.com value ÷ years ÷ household members. Monthly.
Car insurance — your shareAsk your parent what your presence on the policy adds.
Gas — trips taken for youSchool, activities, appointments primarily for you.
Other Transportation
Bus pass / transitMonthly if applicable.
Rideshare for youMonthly average.
Section 6 Total — Transportation$0.00
What One Year Costs — Monthly Summary
Home
$—
Food
$—
Health
$—
Education
$—
Clothing
$—
Transportation
$—
Monthly Total — What your family spends
$—
Annual Total
$—
Enter your numbers to see the monthly and annual totals.

Questions Worth Sitting With

Reflection

What number on this list had you never thought about before? · Is there anything on this list you feel you could start contributing to? · One person you could ask how they managed these costs when they started out:

"You are not a burden. You are a preparation. Most people learn these numbers when they are already behind. You just learned them now, while you still have time to prepare."